How to Get Laid Without Your Own Place (Pro 2024 Guide)

Last Updated Feb 15, 2024

Living with your parents or a bunch of your buddies who love to invade your privacy? It’s all part of the process. Today, I’ll teach you how to get laid without your own place using clever techniques I used way back when before I had my own place.

I’ve preached in the past that it’s absolutely critical to have your own place to get laid, but like all things in life, there are ways to get around it.

When I first started traveling back in 2014, there were stretches of time where I stayed at my mom’s house for up to a month.

Considering my hunger for women had already grown to a robust level, I had to figure out ways to score when I could.

One night, I got it on in the bedroom right next to my mom’s – a memory I don’t like to often reflect on.

Even before I began traveling, there were times in high school and during my college years that I had to get creative.

Let’s dive into some of the best solutions to this nasty predicament that affects men throughout the world.

First things first

You need to use a reliable online dating app to find your date.

My personal favorite is Tinder.

Once you downloaded the app and have made some matches, you need to get a few numbers.

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Tip: in this situation, it’s best to chase younger girls (18-22) or older women (35-45). Why? Because women who are in the young professional category will expect much more out of you.

Once you have her number and you’ve been chatting or texting, it’s time to arrange a date.

This is where the problem of not having your own place arises, right?

1. Find a time when nobody is home

There’s no rule that you must admit that you don’t have your own place.

If there is a time during the day or night when nobody is home, make that time work for you.

This works even better if your roommates or parents go on vacation.

The key is to work as hard as you can to make sure you have dates lined up for this valuable time frame.

Once a girl is ready to meet, plan the date near your place.

Click here for ways on how to lead the date back to your place.

If you’re worried about your date finding out that it’s not your place, just say you are housesitting or hide some of the decorations that make it too obvious.

In most cases, the girl won’t care if it’s your place.

She was willing to return with you, right?

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2. Get those windows steamy

I remember a date I had almost six years ago now when I did have a place.

I had met my date on POF, and we planned to meet at the bar for a drink.

Once we had a few drinks together, the date never did progress to either of our places.

We got it on right in the parking lot in the back of my Tahoe.

It wasn’t the most glorious sex of my life, but it did satisfy my basic human need.

The point is that you should go on the date without worrying about your place situation.

You never know if you’ll end up in your backseat.

3. Aim for cougars

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This is where the older women come into play.

A lot of them won’t care if you have a place if they’re physically attracted to you.

Instead, they’ll invite you to their place once the date wraps up.

They may even invite you straight over if they’re feeling frisky enough.

The best way to get the direct invite is to do a video chat up front.

That way, you’ll gain her trust without having to leave your couch.

4. Ask a buddy for an assist

One of my best friends was steadily “renting” out space to our circle of friends to get laid.

By the time we reached high school, he already essentially owned his own house.

His brother’s old bedroom became a hotspot for our friends.

I know not every guy has a buddy like this, but for the ones who do, it’s a great option.

5. The great outdoors

Beds are great and all, but my favorite place to get it on has always been outside.

I remember taking my girlfriend back on these forest trails where I blazed with my buddies growing up.

I was 18 at the time, and she was 22.

Earlier that summer, my stepdad kicked me out of my house for smoking inside.

It was my first summer home after freshman year of college.

In the end, my girlfriend invited me to come live with her a block from the beach.

It was a huge upgrade; her rich father had rented her this solid spot in the perfect part of town.

Getting back to the story, we made crazy love alongside the lake.

There’s no rule that says you can’t carve out your own little private outdoor spot around where you live.

Man, I even did it in a public park in St. Louis in the middle of the night.

6. Always say yes to housesitting

Whenever a member of your family or a friend asks you to housesit, you’re getting the perfect opportunity to get laid.

The only catch here is that you should screen the girl first on a date before bringing her into your home or another person’s home.

The last thing you want to do is invite a loose cannon straight over, especially if you’re not prepared to kick her out.

7. Make more money

Men who aren’t motivated enough to get out of their parents’ houses or find their own spot in the first place will have trouble scoring with quality women regardless.

Unless you look like Chris Hemsworth, women are more attracted to a man who gets the job done on every level – bedroom game, money game, mental game, etc.

The least you can do is learn how to play the guitar to serenade women.

I know once I moved to college at age 18, I immediately knew that I’d never live with my parents again.

Even those short stints between my travels were too much.

I’ve been out of the country for almost three years straight now and have no regrets.

Final Thoughts

Congratulations, you now know how to get laid without your own place.

The biggest takeaway is that these ideas are only a groundwork and designed to help you think outside the box.

Depending on your situation, you may need to get more creative.

The second and equally biggest takeaway is that it’s still highly possible to get laid without your own place (the older you are the harder it becomes).

The last thing you want to do is abandon dating altogether because you live with your parents, friends, or other family members.

Opportunities arise in every situation, it’s up to you to capitalize on them.

Yes, your road to success will most likely be more difficult, but almost everything that’s worthwhile doesn’t come easy.

Cheers and best of luck.


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